Indeed. Whatever is going on here, it's better to figure it out under our own power than by having it forced upon us.

...And if I'd wanted to insult you, you'd be able to tell.

[man, being semi-nice is hard... he huffs out a breath and is low-key surprised he can't see it]

I'm going to check outside for more firewood. Are you going to come?

[who taught this guy how to give invitations...]